Do yourself a favor and Suck in that stomach!

   What's the number one thing that people do when trying on clothes in a clothing store or at home to "look better" or "thinner" in those jeans? We suck in our stomachs. This action is then dismissed by the majority as a "lost cause" because we rationalize that we'll never be that thin. The point is not to be thin but by not using our abs more consciously and consistently throughout the day is a major cause for knee and foot pain, hip pain, back pain, shoulder tension, and neck strain. Wait did I just cover the entire body? Yes.
    If you were to suck in your stomach all day, every day, you would not only look thinner but feel better since you would be improving your posture by supporting the back and relying less on the shoulders and neck to hold up your very heavy head.  And some of us have some big heads the average head weighs 10lbs. Now when was the last time you picked up a 10lb object?
    But not just physically, mentally and spiritually you would be activating the major energy center (the solar plexus) that is the seat of will power and manifestation. By checking in periodically during the day to see if we are sucking in our stomachs, which means we are engaging deep abdominal muscles that support the spine and lifting the weight of the body out of the legs we help to relieve the pressure that gravity is constantly exerting on our bodies. 

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     Imagine. Gravity is constantly pulling us towards its center of the Earth, over years of living in a mostly unconscious manner of how we carry ourselves and use our bodies, the years of gravity start to manifest from the invisible to the visible plane through joint discomfort, back pain, and neck/shoulder tension. You can begin now, it's never too late but the later it happens, the sooner age starts to show. 
  So start sucking in your stomachs more often. I check in with my abs at least four times during the day and often when my neck or shoulders or back start to ache.  You can too. Do yourself a favor and suck in your stomach from morning until bedtime. You will thank yourself. 

Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear by Srinivasan S. Pillay, MD

As humans we rely on our brains to protect us from mortal dangers to ensure our survival. As a species, we’ve developed a highly sensitized system of functioning to alert us to dangers that may be present in our environment but how often do these ingrained systems block us from the courage required to start that new job or new romantic relationship. Have you ever wondered how your fear of success or love prevents you from actually attaining it? Though you may profess and take steps to reach for the things you want, yet you somehow always run from or reject it. Deep within our faculties lie answers to unlocking the reoccurring thought patterns and behaviors that limit us from living to our fullest potential. 

Srinivasan S. Pillay, MD, an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, recently published, Life Unlocked: 7 Revolutionary Lessons to Overcome Fear, a book that gives the biological and psychological implications in our brains' responses to fear in clear and accessible language for any reader, along with practical tools and practices to overcome these patterns. Pillay explains the latest research findings of Cognitive Neuroscience and applies these findings to his experience as a therapist and director of the Outpatient Anxiety Disorders Program and the Panic Disorders Research Program in the Brain Imaging Center at McLean Hospital in Belmont, Massachusetts through real life stories of patients.

Pillay outlines seven common fears that everyone experiences to some degree and that most of our fears come from the unconscious. Our brains process visual stimulus much quicker than our conscious realizes. An example is seeing a coiled rope in a dark hallway. Our first emotional response occurs in the thalamus which sends signals directly to the amygdala alerting us to the "snake".  After a moment we are able to process the stimulus again, this time through the long route from the thalamus to the cortex(reasoning) which concludes it is actually a rope and then sends signals to the calm the reaction of amygdala.  

The bridge he constructs for overcoming the isolating behaviors of fear is through personal exploration and therapy to understand the nature of our fears while we re-stitch the patterns of our brain connections with practices that can replace fear with hope so that we begin to change our previously established patterns. Based on his experience in clinical psychiatry and brain-imaging research, Pillay illustrates what ignites our fears and anxiety and how we have the possibility to rewire our responses with the proven concept of Neuroplasticity. He offers the reader a MAP-CHANGE approach at the end of every chapter to use as a practical tool towards establishing new connections and responses to life.

Life Unlocked contains the science and clinical research data to assist us in understanding and overcoming our fears and anxieties so that we may move past what we fear and truly reach for the stars. I strongly recommend this book to anyone interested in the deeper science behind the mind-body-spirit connection to use as a platform for unlocking your hidden potential.     

Maitreya: The Asian Experience

Maitreya "The Asian Experience"

I can't say more about the calming and energizing effects of this album. Participants always have positive comments about the music after I use it in class. It is a perfect compliment to any yoga/pilates practice with it's mellow downtempo rhythms and ambient eastern additions that awaken one's facutlies for attention without distracting the mind from the activity.  Also, a great album to put on after a stressful day at work. It's calming but not sleep inducing. Check it out at the link above.

In the Heart of the Moon

Ali Farka Touré's album "In the Heart of the Moon" is one of the best albums of West African string music and I highly recommend everyone adding this your music collection. Ali Farka Touré is a West African musician from Mali whose music is celebrated around the world. There is the smallest amount of vocals used on the album making it almost an entirely instrumental album.  It's a favorite of mine to use in Pilates and Yoga classes because the compositions are rhythmic, relaxing, and stimulating. The music calms the mind while the melodies keep the mind present in the activity. This album has the uncanny ability to calm and focus my mind within the first track, allowing me to concentrate on an important task. There's something absolutely magical about the polyrhythmic strings of Ali Farka Touré and I assure you, his music will make your spirit soar.

Humming Improves Sinus Health- Not Just for the Happy and Carefree

Remember how much you enjoyed humming as a child, fascinated by the sounds and vibrations it produced.  Remember the joy attached to your sense of wonder that you were creating these sounds. Ask any child to hum their favorite song and they enjoy it so much it's hard to get them to stop. For most adults the fascination with the human body has diminished and we suffer from the body more than we take joy from it. Well, kick the adult worries aside and get humming, it's good for your sinus health.
 
The New York Times reported on two new studies conducted in Europe  that indicated the simple act of humming provided enough stimulation to the sinus cavity to improve its health function. So humming on a regular basis could help prevent a cold from becoming a sinus infection. Scientists discovered that humming caused dramatic increases in the levels of nitric oxide in the sinus cavity than when the breathing was silent. The studies focused on the levels the nitric oxide which its biological function acts to promote the relaxation of smooth muscle and improve blood flow to the area. 

Yoga practices have a deep understanding of the subtle effects of chanting on the mind and body but in addition to the rapid exchange of gases which promote relaxation and blood flow of the nasal passages, humming stimulates the hypothalamus gland which regulates the immune system. Thus humming and chanting can help to fight a cold before it even begins.

It's winter and the colds are aplenty, so if you've been too shy to try the Om's in a yoga class, open up and say ahhhhh to the benefits your head will receive unless you prefer the fogginess of a cold.  If you already chant Om, try a home practice of 11 rounds of Om to see feel how chanting for longer periods brings you into deeper levels concentration and really opens the lungs, throat, and head. Feel good this season and hum your way to better health.

Create the Life you Want!

We live in an ever-expanding universe. This macrocosm can be cultivated within your own consciousness through a number of ways. The first step is always to stop and discover your own personal state of being. Are you tired and sluggish from long hours at work? Are you uninspired from your monotonous daily routine? Are you wired from the caffeine or jittery from the sugary snacks? Are you daydreaming of being anywhere but here? Am I breathing shallow or deep? Am I slouching or sitting up tall?
When we begin to take the time to look within ourselves and allow the honest answers to arise, if we listen carefully, we will be surprised at how just slight changes can improve our lives.
The most common conversations I have with friends and acquaintances revolve around how to change one's perspective. This also happens to be one of my biggest passions and greatest challenges, which is why I study so much about this topic.
I remember during the Blackout of 2003, when the entire Northeastern powergrid went down, I remember meeting a new group of friends because we all shared this experience. During our long walk over the Brooklyn Bridge, my friend spoke about how his life was successful financially but terribly boring and routine.  The frustration of his soul is what I remember most, he felt trapped but the routine nature of his life. The advice I gave him was to try simple things to change his experience of the everyday. For instance because we live in NYC where we all walk to our destinations, which is in itself a blessing for keeping our bodies in use, I suggested that he try walking a different way to the office and a different way home. Rather that walk the same way, taking the same route, seeing the same shops and people, just turning a different corner may alert you to a new discovery. Something that brings joy to you and that you never knew was right around the corner because you simply never walked that way.
I ran into this friend a year later and his life had completely changed. He looked happy and was living more proactively. He told me he started walking a different way to work and one day he ran into an old college friend who alerted him to an opening available at a design firm. He applied and was offered the new job and now loves the work he is doing. He thanked me and went on his way. 
The lesson being that because we are creatures of habit, it's easy for us to become complacent, especially if life affords a certain amount of comfort.
We recreate our lives every day we wake up from sleep. No, it's not a completely blank slate, that would be too much.  But the little ways we create our days begins when we wake up. Taking a minute to say I love you to yourself when you look in the bathroom mirror to walking or driving a different way to work. Try saying hello to stranger and be surprised by the extend of power you have to respond to the world around you.
May you be blessed to experience more of joys and wonders of life.

Self-Healing through Repairative Medicine

Krista Tippet on Being is a radio program broadcast by American Public Media on National Public Radio. In New York City, her program is aired on Sunday mornings from 7-8am.  I know there are podcasts that I can download and listen to whenever I want but there is something special about the ritual of waking up early on a Sunday and have a hot cup of coffee and thinking about the deeper quests of understanding life and our place within the greater sphere of existence.
Tippet's program name has recently changed from "Speaking of Faith" to "Being", a curious but seemless shift in language that doesn't alter the material of the program but gives it stronger roots in the present. Today's program was about stem-cell research and the remarkable insight that Doris Taylor still doesn't understand the cell but is able to watch it renew itself. She says we could spend the next 30 years trying to figure out how they work or we could allow the cells to do what they know how to do and save lives. This program also goes into the amazing observation that the blood changes to create positive cells during meditation.  The second part of the program focuses on the healing potential of the body and the positive effects of meditation on the body's stem cells.
Hearing this additional information reminds me of a remarkable experience on the Ms Westerdam during one of the meditation workshops I had given.

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Eloise, a graceful passenger and former nurse, was attending the workshop to explore a practice that has been recommended to her by her doctor to lower her blood pressure.  Out of the 10 participants, 4 were currently suffering from high blood pressure. Yogi Bhajan always said not to believe him on faith but to try the practice for yourself and see what it can do for you.
Eloise brought her portable blood pressure monitor and tested the four for their blood pressure before the meditation practice and then she tested everyone afterwards.  Well not only did they simply feel relaxed and happy, their blood pressure had dropped significantly to healthy levels.
It was a small and informal test of the possibilities for the body to heal itself if we give it the opportunity to do so. Too often we get in the way of our own healing because we refuse to TAKE THE TIME OUT that the body needs to repair itself.
It doesn't take a lot of time but it takes intention and discipline but the changes you can impart in simply three minutes of one's life can change the outcome of the stress we receive. Instead of destroying us, we can renew ourselves and truly reach for a greater, more fulfilling life.